My Philosophy

So this is my philosophy on how to change. Everyone has something about themselves that they don't exactly like and this is my idea of how to go about changing that. (This is more for personality traits, not physical ones. But if it is applicable use it) :)
Step Number One:
Admit that you want to change that thing. Whether it be for how you worry too much or if you spend too much money or whatever. Admit that you have a problem and you want to change it.
Step Number Two:
Make a list! Make a list of why you want to change. Without motivation no one would get anywhere. If there is no end in sight, why work for it right? So make a list of why you want to change! (For family, for savings, for a house, a car, a happy relationship, to just be happier... etc...) Go all out too!! Cut out pictures out of a magazine, get pictures of your family, a car you want, a fancy house... Etc... Paste them all together on poster paper and put it up somewhere you can see it. So you always know what you’re working for!
Step Number Three:
Make another list!! This one you aren't going to like as much as the first. THIS one is going to be a list of HOW you can work towards reaching your goals and make that change. It is the work list so it is going to be a list of things you might not want to do or a list of things that seem hard but put them down on the list. Think of the hardest things you can and put them on the list. Then think of the easiest things and put them as well. Put things you might have already done towards your goal, and then you can check them off.  And you'll feel more accomplished. :)
Step Number Four:
Get to work! Now all you have to do is get to work on what you wrote, if you ever need motivation then just look at you awesome motivational list or poster!

Good luck everyone!! I know you can do it!! (And I guess this list can work for physical things, like if you think you have a little extra weight you want to get rid of or something.)



I quit my job. I no longer work at Petsmart, nor am I tortured by dogs anymore. Okay not entirely true. I own a black lab named Marley and I love her to death!! She is so cuddly and cute. But anyways, back to the quitting. David works at Costco and is doing great. I am really bored though since I have nothing to do. I will be starting school soon so that will be nice. But I also want a job. So I can have something more to do. So yeah... That is all! :D


Happily Ever After is just the beginning...

I am proud to announce that on June 4th 2011 I married the man of my dreams! I love him so so so so so so much!!!! :D He is awesome and amazing and is everything I could ask for in a husband. We met March 2nd 2011 at an institute Women's Appreciation Luncheon. He was there serving water to all us pretty ladies. And when he came to my table I asked him to come mattress sledding with me and a friend and it turned out to be awesome! So we hung out again a few days later. And a couple days after that we were dating, and then by the end of the month we were engaged! It was love at first sight... well at least for him. At first I wasn't so sure how I felt but then my friend sat by him during a movie and I got jealous. So once I realized I did like him, I went ahead and started hanging out with him everyday. We stayed up late into the night talking about our futures. And soon our futures became one future. I am glad I took a chance with him and that he wanted to hang out with me. He is wonderful. Well that is the update. I LOVE YOU DAVID STOUT!!! :D
p.s. we are trying to get pregnant hehe :)